★★★★★
Rick in North Carolina
What I've read has shown me that God wants to bless me and I have a greater peace, contentment, and joy in my situation thanks to the hope I found in this book!
★★★★★
Harm in South Africa
It helped me being calm, with words and actions. Not asking my wife any marriage questions, and for time being leave her on her own.
★★★★★
Douglas in Ohio
The Book has offered many insights and a scriptual perspective of how I should be viewing my situation. As it turns out my son is in the same situation and is trying to stand for his marriage and we are encouraging each other. As a result of reading your books I have let go of my attorney and am trusting God fully with my situation! I do believe that God has said that he would restore my marriage and while I am not praying for that, Im praying only for his will, I stand with the belief that God is more than able and willing to heal my entire family.
★★★★★
Michael in Illinois
The book has given me sound advise based on the word. It has allowed for me to look at it not based on my thoughts but on His Word. I have already been able to help other men in my actions that they see in me. And I have only been able to do that with God and what I've learned from this book. Since then I directed men to the books and website as well.
★★★★★
Kirk in California
When I was in my darkest moments it brought hope!
★★★★★
Marlos in Arizona
This book has become one of my daily readings in order to help me grow both closer to God and His Will and to keep myself in check with how to walk with God to restore my marriage and family. I find the book to be an on-time help in those times where I'm unsure or uncertain and having trouble really finding direction. I have been able to use this information even for individuals not in marriage crisis or that are taking some of the bad steps that i have taken. I have also been able to refer other people i've seen in marriage crisis to this book as a means to really have them look accurately at themselves and their actions.
I have also dealt heavily with my anger and the information listed in the books Restore your Marriage and A Wise Man has provided a way for me to really try to get a hold of myself and my problems. I want to help others because I know what its like to battle through with no one else and it can be a lonely and daunting road. But from the hope that I've found I want to be able to help someone else who is in that position.
God has strengthened me beyond measure in this time. Every time i felt like giving up or giving in, God has recharged me to follow his Word. There have been times where i'm stumbled, but He continues to lift me up.
★★★★★
Jean in France
This book helped me to see my situation upside down at a time when I was despair and lost, without a good knowledge of what the Lord was thinking about my situation. It helped me to clear things out. I am taking to a brother for few weeks as he is going through a difficult crisis in his marriage. As I read the three books Restore your Marriage, A Wise Man and Word of Their Testimony, I think I will read the wise man again, it is so useful. I would like to tranlate in french some of it to share it with that brother I am talking with. I feel a little bit isolated in my situation facing people at church who have give up on me. At least, this is what I feel like. Lord I need your help to take my eyes off my wife, my marriage and my situation to put them on You.
★★★★★
Ed in California
This book has been helpful in many ways in regards to pointing out the faults of the person I have been during the course of my nearly 5 years of marriage. The points that have really been driven home include the sections in regards to realizing the violent and treacherous man that I have been throughout the course of the marriage. In addition, I have learned the importance of letting my wife go to the work of the Lord and letting him do the work that He has set for her. For over a month after our separation, I tried so hard to do anything humanly possible to win my wife's love back, it was a mistake, it has been anything but fruitful. I'm growing in the Lord and I know He will help me become a better husband and father.
★★★★★
Chris in New Jersey
This book has helped me to stop trying to fight this battle in the flesh and I have turned it over to God. I have stopped making my marital issues an idol and am putting God first. I now have many scriptures that are promises that I incorporate in my prayers.
God has showed me that in the past "HE" was always there for me. God revealed to me that he was waiting for me to seek him and also to not fight for my marriage in the flesh. God revealed to me that just as he revealed himself to me, to begin working in me, he will do the same for my wife.
★★★★★
Mark in Canada
It has shown me in God's own words that He wants to rebuild me into the man and husband He wants me to be. That He has allowed this for His greater purpose. The book also provides answers based on His Word during moments of crisis, fear and doubt. My wife is planning on leaving soon and most likely will file some sort of papers of separation once I arrange to either sell the house or refinance. The book is preparing me and settling me that HE is in control, I am to fear not. The short term guidance (His Word applied hourly) provide peace and reassurance to me, my soul and spirit. Erin has walked the walk with courage that is uncommon. I have felt some of her pain and that is why this book is a God send because Erin distills every emotion, pain, distortion, lie or confusion back to God's word. No other book or counsel like this anywhere....not friend, not pastor but from Him.
My heart goes out to my friend who is separated ...so when I found your website (or it found me ...Thank you Lord) ....I immediately called this man to meet for a coffee about hope. We are scheduled to meet next week. The other man I've been giving encouragement to since he knows of my crisis and pain is an alcoholic on the verge of separation...
God's WORD pierces EVERY emotion; thought, scenario, fear, doubt and hope I have to save my marriage. The Lord has shown me that is HE who has allowed this for my good, He has brought peace to my numbing grief and sadness, He has wiped my tears, He has given me the peace to allow me rest from my fears, pain & sobbing. He has shown me hope for my marriage. And I now believe in Him, for He has removed my doubleminedness.
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